Death sentence for abandoned baby?

Biar betul? Cruel, heartless.. ppl made mistakes.. but is it necessary for u to put death sentence to these offenders?  It's too heavy...should give them the chance to repent.

I don't trust this would work out in solving or dwindling the cases. Those are teenagers and very young women without stable income. If they have income.. surely go for abortion, and if older should be wiser on what action to take for their wedlock baby. Myb sent to orphanges house.. Just imagine at your age of 18? how would you react? They are just scared.

They killed babies and u sentenced them to death? Do we achieve anything out of this punishment? macam istilah hutang darah d bayar darah lak. I guess those offenders deserves to be given 2nd chance... and sent for rehabilitation.

Ok for those who had wedlock baby, keep your baby! not easy to be pregnant, carrying baby in your womb, give birth..endure with all the pains. Even ppl talk now, they will stop later. Say you don't want the baby, give to others!

Writing is Ease of Mind

Each time I  wrote.. it's a way to ease the mind..drift me away from something bothering or burdening me. and I felt more comfortable.. there are times I don't have BFF around, I can't have the righteous person to speak with.

I dont feel right.. I dont feel being myself.. I tend to be suscpetible

I Agree..with  this person.whom  I personally loved his writing, eloquent thoughts + clear + mature + informative + technical and emotional blended inside. He's once told that writing, for certain people is the pleasure and in a way relief your boredom. Mind you, although his writing doesn't reflects his true self.

Kemaafan

Aku dgr ceramah dr. fadzillah kamsah... dia interv abby abadi. psl kemaafan and 1o benefits yg kita dpt bila memaafkan org lain. spt pintu rezeki terbuka n byk lg. Aku tertarik n terpk...selama ni aku ckp ok dh maafkan, TAPI...

ada istilah " dapat maafkan, sukar melupakan" . does it mean, we've totally forgiven him/her? masih bersisa kat hati?

mcm cerita Adamaya - tv3... Adam husben Maya... for me, very2 forgiving..bini dh tau curang beberapa kali.. tp demi cinta.. dia x berdendam pun (marah of course lah!!) , malahan ttp tunjukkan betapa dia sygkan Maya.. well cerita... realiti? aku pn x tau...ada ke lelaki yg begitu cool

ok balik to topic td.. Abby ckp kalau 1, 2, 3..10 ok maafkan. tapi kalau dh ke 100 kali buat benda yg sama patut tak dia maafkan? Dr. fadzillah reply " soklan bagus, kita buat dosa berapa ribu kali? Allah ttp ampunkan asal kita bertaubat... maha pemurah dan maha kaya Allah.. Subhanallah. "awak rs ada tak org yg perlu maafkan awak?"

Aku bukan nk citer sal rumahtangga org.. aku nk ckp sal memaafkan org lain ..atas tu hanya mukadimah

So tips dr.fadzillah kamsah :

1st: masa solat, berdoa agar Allah jadikan hati kita hati yg pemaaf agar org lain pun Allah akan lembutkan hati turut memaafkan diri kita.. sbb dosa kat Allah boleh "Kaw team" kalau mintak ampun bertaubat.. tapi dosa kt org lain? kita kena selalu minta kt Allah..n berhajat..sbb dia suka kita minta

2nd: sentiasa memaafkan org sekeliling. agar hati org lain terbuka memaafkan kita.

kdg2 kita pendam, pas tu meletup one day. (rasa sng tak utk memaaf tanpa dipinta? sbb kita ada ego masing2 atau kita sering mendpt pujian yg buat kita rasa kita lg elok, or myb sesorg tu dh aniaya kita/tlepas ckp ..tersindir ker)

Senario 1:

"aku rs aku lebih baik dr dia" . cth : aku smyg subuh.. dia tak.. aku lg pandai ngaji.. dia tajwid pn x betul. dia study pun x ke mana . n bla bla bla

Senario 2:

" aku rasa aku x salah... dia mula dulu, buat apa aku mintak maaf dulu?"

cth lain: yg aku penah dgr drp dr. fadzillah gak.. ibu bapa pun harus minta maaf.. jgn ego kalau kita tahu kita salah.. aku hrp aku akan mengamalkannya.. hati yg lembut memaafkan anak2 tanpa di minta. hrp2 masa tu tiba aku dh lg matang.

3rd: sentiasa minta maaf spy kita jd humble

Kesimpulan : aku pn insan biasa.. aku pn x lari dari kejadian2 di atas.

Customer Service punya Services

I'm totally new to iPhone..so there's a lot of the function I'm not familiar with..until now I still haven't explore the functions or applications in depth.

in comparison .. my ques is as simple as 1+1=2.. but the truth is i don't know the answer is 2

1 or 2 days after buying.. I called Cust. Service, asking about i tunes, tethering n etc.. Spoken to at least 3-4 person which I recalled. They either gave me the answer :

1 )try again within 24hours (which I already did, and patiently waiting for next 24hours). 2 person gave the same answer

2)Go back to our main centre where you purchase this iPhone.

I replied" so there's nothing u can assist me on this matter " .

He answered " Nope"

I didnt give up, N last call... a Chinese lady answered. I knew because she speaks Mandarin at first, n her slang tells..

She gave solutions to all my questions! With simple n accurate "troubleshooting". phewww....

Therefore.. If you're looking for immediate solutions, don't give up when 1 or 2 persons turns you down. Keep seeking until u're satisfied. Of course, my last remedies for this case is to go back to the main centre where I acquired my iPhone.

I saved lots of time n efforts when I met the right person for my questions :)

Satu benda yg aku xdpt buat for this kind Chinese lady which is..normally akan ada call asking customer feedback regarding their service.. dia pun ada bgtau, if I like her service, just press '1" later.

I was waiting for this call. But none came. cian cian..i ingat nk bagi A++ for service dia.. becos norm. bila ada this kind of call asking for feedback I ignore jer.

p/s: cite ni dh jadi few weeks ago...kekeke...

Night calls - from 26-40yrs old

Randomly, I think parents nowdays will spend about 10-16yrs of their life span waking up at nights preparing milk for their babies and child. The number of years reflect if you have 3-5kids.

I was still on bottle feeding until primary 3. hahaha.. Doubt my statement? trust me i'm telling u the truth. my other siblings stops earlier I guess. That is why..i predict my bones are heavy.. ihihi.. wanna check bones weight vs fats weight someday.

I was wondering.. for myself, gave birth to a baby at the age of 26. If I stopped at 35, manage to have 4 kids, means.. shall waking up at nights entirely from 26-40yrs old..at least.. 14yrs of my life span

The idea came out..when last night at around 1130pm, preparing milk for Batrisyia, I felt I'm not having enough blood supply to my brain cells.. *nk pitam*. For the whole week, I was a bit exhausted..plus not enough rest

Overall, I love having babies....they're so cute..adorable.. u felt at peace , tranquil.. looking at your sleeping babies

Savings.. Keep Saving..lalalala

Buzzzz Buzzz... It's been a while since I didn't make any savings into my ASB. Ha ha.. always harbouring mind that I want to reserve this to spend on this on that. Easier to withdraw from savings account rather than ASB (that's y we called it Saving, "protocol" before we can withdraw, suppress me from spending arbitrarily) Eventually, end year low dividen earned..for not saving into ASB. hehehe itulah.

Gladly today, I've manage to start some savings thru online Maybank which made life easier, thanks to Online facilities. Done after being advised few times by my daddy.

FYI.. If we make savings into ASB on 1st of each month, or end of each month, dividen will also be calculated into that particular month. Example, we bank in let say 3rd March, dividen will only be calculated into April dividen instead of March dividen. Bank in 1st March, counted as dividen for March.

Anyway, thanks to my daddy..who always been buzzing n advising me. Hope I'll success proceeding my old tradition, save in ASB. Better dividen for a promising future. *BIG LAUGH*

ps/: Ha ha ha..mcm budak2 di suruh menabung kan...sbb suka nk spend kt toys lah,pemadam & pensel tekan colorful lah, beli mknn x bkhasiat kt nyonyah luar pagar sekolah jual ice cream lah,jual keropok 10sen lah,coklat pusing2 rm1 lah, Isk isk.

Nestum for Baby?

Confused confused..!

this is how it beginss..

1-2weeks after Tisya was born, mil told my husband to give our daughter nestum..according to her, her children started nestum early due to baby demand..keep crying because of hunger.

I didn't agree.. from my reading, babies will only be introduced to solid food after 6mths or earliest 4mths...if milk doesn't seems adequate for them..besides I don't think their stomach is ready to digest solid food.

last week a few relatives came visiting grandma/pa. they said "baby u badan kurang jadi".kurang jadi - x berapa tegap, x berapa montel. according to them they started giving just a bit of nestum to their baby during confinement. OMG!

i've cuddle few babies, what i notice is, Tisya body is not hard enough compared to other babies.. or myb just my feeling? i don't mind about her being chubby montel or not. i'm concern about her body development. so..i made a decision to buy + add nestum into her milk. just half scoop, once a day.. n see the outcome. doing this not because i think she's hungry+not enough milk.. just to ensure her bones n body are strengthen...

today, after some reading, also refers to my aunty (a paedatrician).. whether it's ok to add nestum to baby's milk. she said 6mths starts solid food. i x berani tny lebih2..later kena marah ahahaha..since my parent pn x brp agree.

From readings, giving nestum earlier than 6mths may not show the side effects now, but long term effects. Their organs may not be ready yet..to absorb all the minerals (also it depends on the baby itself)

My conclusion.. safer to stop giving the nestum for a while.. another 1 weeks she will be 5mths.. I'll just wait for 2-3weeks...before resume with nestum again. and actually if betul2 dh 6mths..i plan nk buat bubur sendiri bukan yg instant..lg sihatt...hehe..ni as tmbhn je

Haa..ada 1 lg, aku n helmi xtau nestum2 baby yg org ckp selama ni cmner, i tought mmg nestum mcm org dewasa slalu mkn/buat biscuit.but version baby. hahaha rupa2 nyer beras, wheat, brown rice for babies...stage 1 2..brand nestle tu.. referred as nestum. hahaha..siap call2 org lg tnyer...

Maidsss

I'm sure before this we heard psl indonesia urging our government to increase the salary of foreign maids from their country up to rm600 if i'm not mistaken. Last night, in news.. part of the negotiation is to pay housemaids salary Rm800, passport kept by employee not by their employer anymore, entitled for leave.Mm.. and it seems that our goverment had no choice, but to oblige the urge sooner..My place now, byr agent yg hire tu pn bukan murah, now at least if legal way dalam RM5k-6k..termasuk medical check up, immigration etc.

My opinion, if really they were to implement such thing... such as paying them rm800/mth, they should also educate their ppl with skills such as house cleaning, tidying, cooking, baby sitting..and whichever skills that is required n relevant to qualify them having such a high salary as housemaids. Kalah gaji cashier supermarket kt Malaysia ni. At least diaorg ada gak minima sijil SPM. Furthermore, kebykan yg datang tu, kita lagi kena train..ajar tis and tat..bersabar dgn kerenah, what to do, they were among the cheapest labour. Msia started recruiting maids from other country to cover the demand. Skrg ni, my mom lg mencari permanent maid utk my nenek, i pun ada bertny2 kt org... but so far belum dpt lg... at the moment masih guna yg dtg weekly. Dulu sng lah dpt. skrg new rules applied, summore pay agent tu mahal.